Introduction-:

It is believed that if victory makes you learn, then life can be as beautiful as a pearl. However, the condition is applied regarding how diligently you are ready to struggle in measuring the depth of the ocean of life. Hence, in disappointments, a person learns how to create balance between struggle and intentions, because this balance can help add more value to your life. It is the perception that victory teaches a little, while any kind of loss provides experiences that create a great impact and can sometimes be enough to set practical standards for life. The disappointment of failing can only be compensated if a person is ready to take risks again.


Embracing Risk for Success-:

New ideas and concepts can merely be discovered when you prepare yourself to accept the truth that everything has a specific risk; it might be small or big. If you are not interested in taking risks and wish to play it safe all the time, then there is one more thing you must do: stop dreaming! Dreams and choices need to be accomplished with hard work, conviction, confidence, and above all, how eager and firm you are in taking a risk. You work hard but fail to achieve success; no problem, try again and keep trying until you succeed, because it is a well-trusted formula for success. If a person doesn’t try any option and leaves it without making a single attempt, then the level of dissatisfaction surely goes up, and the restlessness could severely undermine their ability to make decisions in favor of moving ahead.



The Pain of Missed Opportunities-:

It can be easily understood how bad a person feels if they fail, but the worst is felt when a person lets opportunities pass by without trying due to the risk of failure. Somewhere, this points to a weakness in taking options and intentions for granted. The question that comes to mind is why people get disappointed over trivial issues. I feel it is human nature to become perturbed when trying to make things possible and to always remain in doubt about accomplishing tasks. Those who hurriedly want to reach the top experience this kind of haste, and having too many unusual expectations from life not only turns their situation against them but also underpins a foundation of disappointment and dissatisfaction. It is well said that the more you depend on presumptions, the more dissatisfied or disappointed you will be.


Accepting Life’s Challenges-:

  If you expect to live life without obstacles and failures, it means you are hoping for something against hope. It is a part of life that when a person begins to focus on or desires to earn more and more, I would like to tell you that nothing in this world could make him satisfied and happy. Whatever he has acquired, in the end, will become less for him; it can never be enough to make him feel good. This type of feeling paves the way for dissatisfaction and disappointment to occupy space within us. If a person always prefers to go with the way he interprets things, without realizing the common issues, it makes much sense that these unreasonable and irrelevant ideas would fail just at the beginning of the process. There is no need to be depressed because somewhere you were saved from that qualm, which might have been more fatal than failing.


Finding Strength in Disappointment-:

If a person begins to expect much more from himself beyond limits and is not even ready to face adversity, it definitely becomes visible as self-disappointment or dissatisfaction and will start signaling the worst that comes from within you. Disappointments and dissatisfaction should not be taken as the hardest blows to your strength. Often, they become great motivations that not only help you build character and boost your morale but also develop a feeling that something is still left, creating waves of solace within. Who knows, the path of ease could emerge from the biggest disappointment. It has been noticed that many people want to know what frustration is and how someone gets frustrated. What steps should be taken to deal with it? It can be said that those queries which eagerly seek answers and remain unanswered for a long time lead to irritation.



The Consequences of Bottling Frustration-:

When this irritation is ignored, it means that frustration begins to create its space within. This frustration can easily be noticed if too many irrelevant questions are asked or unusual demands are made by anyone. However, the most dangerous situation arises when a person keeps those things inside that hurt them badly but neither discloses them to friends nor to their kindred. This suffocation compels them to live a frustrated life. I would like to share an incident that my friend told me about how the behavior of people can push anyone into frustration. This is regarding a man who lost his wife and son in an accident and became the victim of circumstance, suffering due to a lack of understanding from the people around him. He became frustrated and ill-tempered, and the people around him felt sick of his peevishness and isolated themselves from him.


Keeping Distance-: 

So those who comprehended him very well always tried to keep him at arm's length. But frequently this man had been seen with a stranger because he didn't belong to this place, so others were unable to recognise him. One day when the stranger was sitting all alone the people went to him and told him how cunning and selfish that person was with whom he was roaming around, and started asking many other questions like,  where did he come from? Why had he come? but one question that had been asked by almost all of them was how he knew him, whether they were kindred or just friends.


The Stranger's Revelation-:  

 But whatever had been narrated by that stranger was unbelievable. He told us that two years ago, he was going to another village to arrange his daughter's marriage. While passing through here, he suddenly lost control of his bike and it struck a big tree. In the meantime, he saw a man running towards him to rescue him before he lost consciousness. The stranger asked the doctor to call him in. When he entered, he started with a bang by questioning why the stranger, if he didn't know how to drive, didn't hire someone else to drive, and who gave him the right to put others' lives in danger. If he had a reason to die, he should explore other options. After saying this, before the stranger could answer, he immediately turned and left the room. 


Contrasting Perceptions-:

At that time, the stranger notices  the contrast between the man who had helped get him hospitalized and the man's unexpected rudeness. But the stranger was sure that the man was neither bad nor cruel at all. He had a good heart but was trying to portray something else. The stranger loved to solve riddles, and the man was no less than a riddle, so from that day on, he decided to be friendly with him.


Unveiling the Past-:

He had been following him for almost fifteen days, and then he came to know how this man had become frustrated due to the death of his wife and son. After the death of his wife and son, the man would get irritated even over petty issues. When people left him in isolation, there was nobody to share even his deepest thoughts, and he was compelled to keep all his feelings inside. Somewhere, this accumulation of harshness was enough to cause suffocation, leading to frustration. If anyone thought he made you suffer, it was neither right nor reasonable because he was going through a lot due to your irresponsible and insensitive behavior. Most of the time, the sense of being remains perfect and flawless, but trying to live larger than life pushes you behind the doors of frustration.


The Complexity of Happiness-: 

When you begin to feel suffocated and pinned down by the barriers that are blocking your path to bliss, and when a person decides to make everybody happy, neither is he able to prepare a good recipe for levity or joy, nor does he have enough knowledge to make an authentic difference in anyone's life. How is it possible to make others happy using the same ingredients? It is a simple fact that happiness spreads more happiness. If you are glad, the positive vibes that come out of you are enough to create happiness around you. If you remain indulged in petty conflicts for a long time, the level of frustration will easily be perceived by others.




Conclusion-:

As we all know, there are many reasons to become frustrated. Therefore, we should keep checking within ourselves. If you feel anything that needs to be worked on, instead of paying heed to the opinions of others, you should look deep within and find the aspects that can make a big difference. It might have been lying uselessly deep within, and it is self-motivation that needs attention. The previous lack of attention has made these issues difficult to deal with. Not only does this way of thinking work in your favor, but it also helps you get back on track in life.