Introduction;

Today I wish to tell you the story of two friends who are very close to each other but meeting is not possible because their existence in human life lies only in the absence of each other if they both try to become part of human life, so it is not more than confusion. The importance of One's worth can be acknowledged or understood easily in another's absence, they know if by chance they get united, not only their worth but even their existence will remain at stake,  so the two friends have decided that they will not try to meet.


The Dichotomy of Pain and Pleasure: 

These two friends play a significant role in shaping human life. They both significantly affect life, and this truth can never be denied: the behavior and decisions of mankind clearly reflect how much humans are affected by the presence of either of the two. These two friends help human beings learn or understand certain lessons in life by providing different experiences. The two companions don't like to rule over mankind, but they know that it is merely their presence that decides the nature of human vitality. Thus, their accord paves the way to maintain flexibility in our lives. When we suffer a great loss and are deeply hurt, we begin to miss the elation and joy of life. However, the lessons we experience, whether the moments are sad or happy, help us understand the value of sadness and happiness in life.


The Pursuit of Happiness:  

Which pleasure or pain influences us the most becomes visible in the way we lead our lives. Now, you can easily guess that these two friends are none other than pain and pleasure. It is tough to define both; whether it is pleasure or pain, we are always looking for bliss in life. Several people try to understand the secret or idea of happiness from different poets or various theories of philosophers, but neither fiction nor fact furnishes any answers. Plenty of things can be applied to achieve happiness, but the foremost thing that has to be considered to gain happiness should be how you spread joy among people rather than always expecting it from others. When a person starts expecting more pleasure rather than spreading it, it means paving the way for sadness. If you wish to make yourself happy, then try to cheer up the people around you.


The Ripple Effect of Joy: 

Whatever the circumstances, you have to hold your spirit high. It has been noticed that the joy of life becomes the source of a person’s smile, and his smile becomes the source of people’s delight. So it is a type of skill that the more we practice, the more we get trained. Those who try to get an answer to what happiness is can never be satisfied. But those who wish to know how others can be made happy will always remain elated. We all have specific kinds of sadness or happiness within us, but which one should be selected entirely depends on the way you have been trained. There is nothing like perfect joy or sadness because it has been visualized that sometimes the happiest occasions are mixed with sad moments, and sad events mug up with the happiest moments.


The Spectrum of Human Experience: 

We should understand that our life is full of pages, and each page is filled with different shades of colors. Every color has its own ideas or story to tell. It is important to have a clearer understanding of pain and pleasure and to know how to cope with grief and elation as well. How can anyone or anything be categorized within the low and high frames of life? Why does a person try to discriminate against things and people based entirely on categorical misstatements? Because nobody can understand the worth of highs without going through a few phases of lows in life. All of us, being human, have certain unbearable moments of darkness, and sometimes we also have the best and most beautiful moments of light to enjoy. So there's nothing new about it.

 

The Role of Questions in Our Journey: 

Many questions in the form of whys, hows, and what's begin to crawl in your mind like insects before they start nibbling and creating chaos. The way you respond to deal with all these questions determines how destiny will work for you. The pain in life paves the way for your improvement; the more a person improves, the more light begins to penetrate through the hole of darkness. In the high moments, the tremendous instances of great light create many doors of success and let them open for you to enter. After acquiring success, especially those who haven't gone through a bad or low phase in life, keep themselves busy to live life accordingly, with satisfaction by adding, sorrows by with satisfaction by adding, sorrows by subtracting, joys by multiplying, and mishaps by dividing. These kinds of people not only start categorizing others into lows and highs but also try to take liberties in making certain degrading statements about those who are going through a bad phase.


The Ultimate Power of Balance:

I would like to tell you why this happens. It happens because somewhere they forget that there is an ultimate power who knows very well how necessary it is to maintain balance. He is there and makes everyone equal. If you also know and accept that life is about these balances, you should not only tackle them wisely but also welcome them as a type of bliss in disguise, which inspires us to make improvements in ourselves. God never does any sort of inequity. He not only provides equal opportunities but gives everything in fair proportions to all of us. It all depends on the ways people decide to take these experiences in their lives. It is noted that sometimes a man lives in a hut yet smiles, while sometimes a man with all types of riches and facilities feels sad for one reason or another. It is all about the mindset; if anyone has made up his mind not to let negativity and sadness take hold within him, he can find happiness.


The Influence of Positivity on Emotions:

Then positivity prevails and tries to cease all those types of negative and gloomy thoughts that might develop a kind of imbalance in life. Don't let your emotions take complete hold of you in any way. If emotions become your master, life will get difficult, with a lot of lows. Pleasure could disappear, negativity may try to invade your mind, and progress will be halted in the absence of a positive approach. When a person is attempting new ventures, from the beginning until achieving them, be assured that there are many obstacles to remove and more mistakes to learn from. As we all know, nobody is perfect in the world, so failing again and again shouldn't make much difference, especially for one who has his head on his shoulders. His spirit of bouncing back compels him to remove all those hurdles from the way, as weeds are uprooted from the grass.


Resilience Through Highs and Lows:

These types of situations make a man prepare for how to face extreme highs and extreme lows. Many times, it has been seen that those who never lose their confidence and are not even ready to give up find that the lowest lows in life pave the way for their highest highs. There are two things: trying and crying. If you always keep trying, without getting tired of losing or failing, then one day the cries will subside under the cover of your good fortune. The serious issues that cannot be resolved so easily are generally about the person who always keeps busy thinking that he has nothing; he is no more than a loser. While influential people are being followed by him for different reasons, he not only wishes to step into their shoes but wants to live their lives as well. It happens because he never gets a chance to observe their situations closely; otherwise, many cracks in their ground reality become visible, and he sees how hard these people are also struggling to repair the damage by pulling themselves up.





Conclusion-:

 In the whole process of this blind observation, he doesn't pay attention or try to focus on those people who are there to think admirably of him and desire to attain his place. Nobody has the right to set specific standards for those who are going through the fastest highs and some different norms for those who are facing the slowest lows. Could this apply to all? If a person feels good right now, he may start feeling sad the next moment. Both situations will be categorized as highs and lows. They are merely feelings that keep changing and are reflected in the mood of an individual. It is very simple to deal with it; just don't expect too much from anyone, nor compel yourself to do anything by going out of your way to avoid making anyone feel high or happy in life.