Introduction-:

Why do people hate or be jealous ? Can this negativity and such a drastic feelings of hatred develop without any resentment? Whenever this type of question is raised in discussions ,the mixed responses turn the discussion into an argument. Sometimes, these strong reactions are just enough to alarm you to stop this assertion as soon as possible before the whole thing converts into strong scorn; later on, it might pave the way for hatred. But what is usually felt by the people? A few ideas can be taken to analyze this negativity. It can be assumed that people think they were hurt badly earlier with certain issues, and at that time, they did not have enough courage or power to take a stand over the issues right then.

 

Awakening of Inner Evils-:  

This gutlessness of theirs awakens all the evils and misconceptions that were lying buried in the corner under the covers of goodness within them. If a person doesn’t take notice of this type of transformation, evils not only begin to raise their heads but also become so active within them that they could easily crush their possibility of moving ahead with goodness and positivity. When a person starts saying that he is good and will never let hate occupy its space within him, it has been noticed that when a person begins to repeat anything constantly, it not only becomes a part of his life but also helps to develop a different kind of art of living, which convinces you of the way you feel about yourself. 



The Power of Positive Affirmation -: 

A strange chapter of life opens with the constant chanting of positive lines; this raises the level of faith, and this belief compels others to show the same conviction in their faith. If you are not convinced about your positivity and genuineness, then it is almost next to impossible to make others believe the way you believe. We should understand this common fact: neither are we angels nor devils; we are just humans. We must move forward with the most important thing, which is our genuineness, as it plays a key role in making things happen the way they are expected to occur. It also depends on how humbly you are ready to accept the most inevitable fact of life: as humans, we all make mistakes, and this fact cannot be changed in any way.


The Inevitability of Mistakes -: 

The mistakes were there, they are, and they will always remain a part of life. The power of self-realization helps you understand that these mistakes should not be repeated for better results. A person always becomes lenient about his own mistakes, but if a mistake is made by someone else, an intense or weird reaction can easily be seen. He starts disliking that person, and in some cases, it turns into hostility. It seems that he is an angel who never makes a mistake. We should understand this common fact: neither are we angels nor devils; we are just humans filled with many different kinds of emotions, love and hate being two of them. Hate is a dangerous one and sometimes spreads like fire, burning everything that comes into its axis. The biggest blow is to your wisdom and it paves the way for the repression of your logical way of thinking, which is required to distinguish between good and bad, right and wrong.


Understanding Hatred and Its Consequences-:

One who hates always wishes, or even thinks, the worst for the person against whom they have feelings of anger or resentment; they never care about the outcome of this mean approach. In the beginning of anything, you don't realize how difficult it will be to come out of this resentment. When a person begins to believe in forgetting and forgiving, it will open the doors to divine love and feelings. Those who believe in continuing to nourish this feeling of hatred, and in creating hardship for others, somewhere in their ignorance forget what kind of ditch of troubles they are preparing for themselves.


The Pitfall of Negativity-:  

These people never realize the truth that one day they might have to pay a heavy price in the later stages of life, because it has been heard from the elders that the one who digs a pit for others unknowingly tumbles into it. Don't ever let intense disliking control your other emotions; if it happens, then there is no doubt it will try to attack the positive aspects. If this negativity does not cease in time, it will gradually finish the positive energy and could easily convert disliking into hate. It will work as the biggest obstacle in setting and achieving targets.


Harnessing Hatred for Justice-: 

you feel that man is the superior creation of God Almighty because man has been given the power of wisdom, then always believe in making good calculations in the journey of life. It must be kept in mind that whatever is added or subtracted will affect your life, making it worthy enough to live.  

So, this strong feeling of hate could be used against injustice, inequality, or cruelty, whether towards a man or an animal. Don’t you feel that before all these evils could place a big question mark on our identity or superiority, they should be checked and nipped in the bud to live a healthy and peaceful life?


The Impact of Jealousy in Relationships-:

Yesterday, I was sitting on my balcony when I overheard a conversation between two ladies. One of them was our neighbor, and the other was her younger sister. It seemed that they both were blaming each other for something. The next day, when I met her, she told me the reason for their tussle: both sisters had applied for the same job, but the younger one was hired. In the viewpoint of the elder one, it was merely her luck rather than her capability. The way she was talking about her sister gave me the idea to write my blog about that particular feeling that lady was going through. It was a prime example of jealousy.



The Ripple Effect of Negative Emotions-:

Most people have this emotion, but the problem is that they never realize the fact that they are really in trouble. They have to take care; if they don’t, it will not only increase, but also strike at their relationships, like a massive blow. It is said that the way you feel or think, your body will also respond in the same way. If your thought process is not healthy, it means your body cannot remain healthy. It is a kind of disorder. If your spirit feels any kind of burden, then how can your body feel better? So from where are you supposed to start working? It is all about your thoughts. If the process of thinking is controlled and certain, then not only do you benefit from it, but the people around you also start feeling better.


Understanding Jealousy: A Complex Emotion-:

Now one question must be pushing to your mind: What is jealousy all about? How can anyone suffer from this emotion? Let me try to make things clear. The intensity of this emotion is so strong that if you are struggling to control it, it can occupy most of the space that lies within you. It can pollute your thoughts. Jealousy can vary from person to person. It might be for the nice image, achievements, or outstanding talent of others. Jealousy compels a person to form the opinion that whatever those people possess and achieve is all his/her loss and they don't deserve it at all. Even if he doesn’t realize the simple truth of life, his actions, decisions, and convictions will pave the way for his contentment, while other people's actions, decisions, and persuasive abilities will pave the way for their satisfaction.


The Destructive Cycle of Jealousy-:

In my opinion, the more one wraps oneself under the cover of jealousy the more resented they will feel. Jealousy and anger are the two negative emotions that are enough to make them restless. This restlessness leads them to dissatisfaction. They start blaming others for all the mishappenings rather than working on their own emotions. This wrong interpretation of his misfortunes and others' fortunes creates a hollowness in their lives and negativity occupies that vacuum and fills it with a lot of false ideas. Jealousy is an intrinsic and inevitable feeling so it is said, it lies at the bottom of all the other emotions. Now only one aspect is left to focus on what steps should be taken to nip this emotion into the bud.


Confronting Jealousy: Fight or Flee?

We all know that it is very tough to deal with any kind of emotion, but it gets tougher to handle the negative feeling of jealousy. At this moment, a person has to realize whether to fight or flee. If a person has a habit of fleeing from any kind of trouble or chaos, neither can they come out of a drastic situation, nor can they be helped to do so. People usually get confused between the two words: envy and jealousy. These terms are mostly used as synonyms because both portray natural feelings. They make us feel awful about others' good fortunes and accomplishments. It is felt that the same kind of impression is earned from these terms, but it is not like this; they are distinct in use.


Distinguishing Between Envy and Jealousy-:

Each has its qualities. Envy occurs when a person lacks or is unable to match the significance of another person's superior virtues, whether personal or professional. If anyone has something unique, then it might be 'neighbours' envy and owners' pride.' Because your neighbors also like to have that wonderful thing, they become envious. However, jealousy can create strong dislike; it can even lead them to start hating you. Therefore, it can be concluded that jealousy is stronger and more alarming than envy. Jealousy leads to rivalry, and it is enough to make your life worse than hell. When anxiety turns into jealousy and jealousy turns into anger, it is enough to finish anyone, anything, anywhere.


The Tragic Consequences of Jealousy in Literature-:

I would like to take an example of Othello, one of the masterpieces of William Shakespeare. We notice how jealousy becomes a lethal weakness and affects Othello, who was a great warrior blinded by resentment and ultimately stabbed his beloved wife, Desdemona, despite loving her madly. This pessimistic approach was provoked by Iago, the villain of the play. Throughout the play, Iago's intentions revolve around greed and envy. As jealousy sets the main plot in this play by Shakespeare, similarly, a person can be driven to do things they never intended to do, but this strong emotion compels us to follow that same path. It cannot be changed easily, but it should not be neglected; we are supposed to keep working hard to



Conclusion-: 

Recognizing and addressing negative emotions such as hatred and jealousy is essential for personal growth and healthy relationships. By fostering forgiveness, combating injustice, and managing emotional responses, individuals can pave the way for a more positive and fulfilling life. I would like to say that life is too short to be jealous. Try to develop the habit of counting your blessings rather than finding faults in others. It will lead you on the path of joy